On International Women’s Day 2018, we stand united as women in Wales who are activists, campaigners, advocates, and survivors to Press for Progress and to say that time’s up for perpetrators of all forms of violence, abuse and discrimination against women. We stand together with the signatories of the letters of actors and activists who spoke out last month to call Time’s Up on the day of the Baftas in London.[1]
Over the past six months, millions of courageous survivors of sexual harassment, sexual assault, rape, domestic violence, female genital mutilation, forced marriage, so-called ‘honour’ based violence and all forms of violence against women have raised their voices to say #MeToo in solidarity with their sisters across the world. The origins of this campaign can be traced to 1997, before social media dominated our lives, when Tarana Burke sat across from a 13 year old sexual violence survivor and felt she could not say ‘me too’, then a decade later Burke initiated “Me Too” as a grassroots movement to help survivors in Black and minority communities, highlighting the importance of intersectional understanding of women’s experiences.[2]
#MeToo has shone a spotlight on the endemic level of these experiences. Some of those who have spoken out have been men and we acknowledge their experiences and call for the support of all survivors. However, the overwhelming majority have been women. This is because sexual harassment is a form of violence against women and is experienced disproportionately by women and girls at the hands of men and boys because it is a consequence – and cause – of gender inequality. Perpetrators’ behaviour stems from a sense of entitlement that is supported by sexist, racist, disablist, homophobic or other discriminatory attitudes, behaviours and systems that maintain and reproduce inequality.
1 in 3 women in Wales experience physical or sexual violence at some point in their lives.[3] We know that women can be nervous about speaking up about their experiences, concerned by what the response will be.[4] We need to ensure that there is support for women to enable them to feel that they can speak out about their experiences, in a safe and non-judgmental environment.
Today, we raise our collective voices to say this:
Time’s up on perpetrators’ behaviour going unacknowledged, unchallenged and unpunished.
Time’s up on women and girls living with the everyday experience of harassment, intimidation, violence and abuse throughout our public and private lives.
Time’s up on an era when survivors of violence against women are not believed, are victim-blamed, are asked what they were wearing and what they had been drinking.
Let us instead call out attitudes and behaviours that allow violence against women to exist. Let us press our Governments in Wales and Westminster to take action. Let us press our businesses, our schools, colleges and universities to create environments in which women and girls can thrive, dream big and reach their potentials. Where violence against women and girls has been eradicated for good. Where 64% of girls in schools do not experience sexual harassment.[1] Where 52% of women are not sexually abused in the workplace.[2] Where the image of a glass ceiling seems archaic, rather than a symbol of limitations in women and girls’ lives.
Violence and abuse against women and girls is not inevitable, it can be prevented and we can work together to eradicate it! It is damaging the potential of our society’s ability to thrive but we can take action. We must have an education system that provides our children and young people with the tools to have healthy relationships. We must create communities where the harassment, violence and abuse of women and girls is challenged. We must see zero-tolerance to sexual harassment enforced by our educational institutions, our workplaces and in our UK Parliament and National Assembly for Wales. We must ensure that support services for survivors are sustainably funded across the country so that the lifesaving services of these specialist third sector organisations are accessible when and where survivors need them.
Together we Press for Progress, in solidarity with the International Women’s Day movement across the globe, acknowledging our diversity to enable equality for all women and girls in Wales, so that we do not have to wait another hundred years for a society where women and girls can live free from misogyny and fulfil their potential without the threat of being silenced. So that women and girls can live free from violence and abuse, and can thrive into healthy, ambitious and equal members of this society.
Signatories:
Adelle Kedge, Powys County Council
Ali Morris, Swansea Feminist Network
Alice Rogers
Alison Hamlington, Welsh Women’s Aid Wrexham
Ami Willcox
Angharad Elen Blythe
Ann Williams, Welsh Women’s Aid (Live Fear Free Helpline)
Anna Grace Rogers
Anna Rogers
Auriol Miller
Awen Iorwerth
Bethan Lewis
Bethan Mai, Rogue Jones
Bethan Marlow
Branwen Cennard
Bronwen Burgess, Domestic Abuse One Stop Shop – Neath Port Talbot
Carole-Anne Davies
Caroline Bunce
Carys Eleri Evans
Catherine Fookes, Women’s Equality Network (WEN) Wales
Catherine Phillips
Cathy Owens, Deryn
Catrin Beard
Catrin Gerallt
Catrin Mara Eiry Thomas
Catrin Ms Davies
Catrin Roberts
Cerith Mathias, Wales Arts Review
Cerys Furlong, Chwarae Teg
Charlie Arthur, RCT Women’s Aid
Charlotte Lewis
Cheryl Waters Jones
Claire Cage
Claire Driffield
Claire Thomas, Welsh Women’s Aid Colwyn
Claudia Boes, Cardiff Sisters of Solidarity
Corrine John, University of South Wales
Danielle Dolby
Dawn Lynne Jones
Deborah Perkin
Diane Nicholson-Wright, Affinity Female Voice Choir
Diane Richards
Diane Williams
Donna C M Williams
Donna Lynne Davies
Dr Alison Parken
Dr Christina Papagiannouli, University of South Wales
Dr Helen Davies
Dr Sam Edwards
Dymphna Cronin
Eirian Griffiths West Wales Domestic Abuse Service
Elena Blackmore, Women & Equalities Officer, Machynlleth Labour Party
Eleri Butler, Welsh Women’s Aid
Elinor Wyn Reynolds
Emily Underwood-Lee, University Of South Wales
Emma Harris
Ffion Dafis
Fflur Dafydd
Fflur Emlyn, RASASC
Gail Richards-Hemming, Port Talbot and Afan Womens Aid
Gauri Taylor-Nayar
Gwawr Loader
Gwendolyn Sterk, UK Expert on EWL Observatory on VAWG
Gwenno Penrhyn
Gwyneth Sweatman, NUS Wales
Hannah Daniel
Hazel Williams
Helen Jones, Atal Y Fro
Helen Rosser Davies
Helen Swain, Cyfannol Women’s Aid
Helen Twidle
Hilary Watson
Jane Gebbie, Unison
Jane Ruthe, RASASC
Jaqueline Pierce Owen
Jemma Wray
Jessica Blair
Jessica Taylor
Joanna Quinn
Joanne Payton
Joy Dyment
Julie Richards
Katie Dalton, Cymorth Cymru
Katie Lynch
Kay Lemon
Kayleigh Llewellyn
Kim Griffiths, Threshold DAS
Kiri Pritchard-Mclean
Laura Cotton
Laura Davies
Laura Mcallister
Lauren Phillips
Lisa Cronin
Lisa Heledd Jones
Lisa Jên Brown
Lisa Roberts
Lizzie Stables
Llinor Ap Gwynedd
Lotte Reimer
Lucy Reynolds, Port Talbot and Afan Womens Aid
Lydia Parry Jones
Lynn Hunter
Lynne Sanders, Swansea Women’s Aid and Swansea Women’s Centre
Maggie Hussey
Maggie Simpson, Cardiff County Unison Labour
Manon Eames
Mared Swain
Marie Oakley
Melangell Dolma
Melissa Wood
Melony Whittle
Michelle Phillips, Soroptimist International Anglesey
Michelle Pooley, West Wales Domestic Abuse Service
Miriam Isaac Georgia Ruth
Morgan Fackrell, Cardiff Women’s Aid
Mwenya Chimba
Natalie Blakeborough
Natalie Holland
Natalie Poole, Newport Women’s Aid
Natasha Hirst
Natasha Sullivan-Dungey
Nerys Evans, Deryn
Nesta Lloyd Jones
Nia Caron
Nia Lynne Roberts
Nicola Mahoney, Safer Merthyr Tydfil
Nicola Sharp-Jeffs, Surviving Economic Abuse
Nikki Giant, Full Circle and Girls Circle
Pamela Barlow
Paula Hardy
Polly Pearshouse
Professor Amanda Robinson, Cardiff University
Professor Charlotte Williams OBE
Professor Emma Renold, Cardiff University
Rachael Eagles, Calan DVS
Rachael Nicholson-Wright, Action on Elder Abuse Cymru
Rachel Minto, Cardiff University
Rachel Williams
Rebecca Harris
Rebecca Haycock
Rebecca James
Rebecca Zerk, Aberystwyth University
Rhian Blythe
Rhian Bowen-Davies
Rhian Lewis
Rhian Rhys
Rhiannon Edwards
Rhiannon M Williams
Rhiannon Maniatt
Rhian Davies, Disability Wales
Ruth Marks, WCVA
Sarah Dollard
Sarah Rees, Women’s Equality Party
Sarah Thomas, NFWI Wales
Sarah Wydall, Aberystwyth University
Sera Cracroft
Shahien Taj OBE, Henna Foundation
Sharon Morgan
Shavanah Taj, Welsh Secretary, PCS Union
Sian Affonso
Sian Harries, Writer-Performer
Sian James
Siw Hughes
Sophie Hansen
Sophie Howe, Future Generations Commissioner
Sophie Millar
Stacie Bourke
Sue Roberts, Stepping Stones North Wales
Sue Roderick
Susan Roddick Owen
Susan Wood
Tania Russel Owen
Tiger Bay Brawlers
Tracy Spottiswoode
Tracey Sutton Postlethwaite
Uzo Iwobi, Race Council Cymru
Victoria Pedicini, Threshold DAS
Victoria Samuel
[1] https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/feb/18/sisters-this-is-our-moment-to-say-times-up
[2] https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/20/us/me-too-movement-tarana-burke.html
[3] http://fra.europa.eu/en/publication/2014/violence-against-women-eu-wide-survey-main-results-report
[6] https://www.tuc.org.uk/sites/default/files/SexualHarassmentreport2016.pdf.